I’m having a hard time getting rid of them there is still a voice inside that’s telling me ill look hot in them again one day
OH MY GOD MY GRANDMA JUST ASKED IF I NEEDED HER TO SEND ME A NEW TOOTHBRUSH SHE LIVES HALFWAY AROUND THE WORLD
It turns out procrastination is not typically a function of laziness, apathy or work ethic as it is often regarded to be. It’s a neurotic self-defense behavior that develops to protect a person’s sense of self-worth.
You see, procrastinators tend to be people who have, for whatever reason, developed to perceive an unusually strong association between their performance and their value as a person. This makes failure or criticism disproportionately painful, which leads naturally to hesitancy when it comes to the prospect of doing anything that reflects their ability — which is pretty much everything.
But in real life, you can’t avoid doing things. We have to earn a living, do our taxes, have difficult conversations sometimes. Human life requires confronting uncertainty and risk, so pressure mounts. Procrastination gives a person a temporary hit of relief from this pressure of “having to do” things, which is a self-rewarding behavior. So it continues and becomes the normal way to respond to these pressures.
Particularly prone to serious procrastination problems are children who grew up with unusually high expectations placed on them. Their older siblings may have been high achievers, leaving big shoes to fill, or their parents may have had neurotic and inhuman expectations of their own, or else they exhibited exceptional talents early on, and thereafter “average” performances were met with concern and suspicion from parents and teachers.
remember that time i bought hummus at my college and i checked the ingredients and it was made with canola oil instead of olive and i was so disgusted i called my mom in a panic and ranted to her o god
like i just love serendipity 3 because their food is alright i mean it’s nothing special (except for their frozen hot chocolate) but the atmosphere is so cool ok im still 13 years old and i love all their kitschy decor that makes me feel like im in alice in wonderland/ a magical antique shop.
idc about watching sports but i’ll always root for the knicks bc stoudemire is cute
idk where to go w my family for my birthday this is stressing me out i asked my dad what i should do and he said “go to the city” but that doesnt narrow it down at all!!!!